Please try to install the stand alone Flash Player from here:
http://www.adobe.com/go/tn_19166 - Half way down the page:
[Download and unzip Install_Flash_Player_9_ActiveX.zip.]
In addition, be sure that before installing Flash Player, check the following
Internet Explorer ActiveX settings
Browser security settings should be chosen by you or by your system
administrator. For single users who do not have an administrator, the Medium:
Default Level allows you to view Flash content. For any Custom Level, ensure
that both the "Download Signed ActiveX controls" and "Run ActiveX controls and
plug-ins" options are set to "Prompt".
To change your security level:
1. Open Internet Explorer.
2. Choose Tools > Internet Options.
3. Select the Security tab.
4. Choose Internet.
5. Click Custom Level.
6. Ensure that the Download Signed ActiveX Controls option is set to Prompt.
7. Ensure that the Run ActiveX Controls And Plug-ins option is set to Prompt.
If you are having trouble installing, make sure that your Internet Explorer
security level is not set to High or to a custom level that does not allow
viewing of ActiveX controls.