HELP!!!! Contribute not writing relative php include links correctly

I have been using a lot of php includes lately that are on my many dreamweaver
templates. They are all relative paths to the dreamweaver template and
dreamweaver seems to do a good job rewritting them to be correct depending on
which subdirectory a page is in. I like using relative ones since I can see the
php code / include visually.

The problem is the contribute is not writting their relative path correctly.
Whenever someone opens a page then saves it, it is all messed up link wise. I
have to go back in there and reapply the template in dreamweaver.

Anyone know how I can fix this, with 10 people editting the site it is the
begining of a nightmare.