Dear,
I have a problem with connecting to other servers rather the one who has
served the swf file.
i was facing the problem even on the same machine , so i have provided the
policy file , to be served before opening the connection, and it works, but
still in IE6 i was just skiping the requset-policy-file that is sent by the
movie and it works, rather the other browsers didn't like this way. At that
time i have written the code to check for the header , and send back the policy
file.

the policy file that i am using is the following:

PolicyFile = @"<?xml version=""1.0""?><cross-domain-policy><allow-access-from
domain=""192.168.1.100"" to-ports=""843"" /><allow-access-from
domain=""192.168.1.101"" to-ports=""843"" /></cross-domain-policy>";

My hope is to be able to connect to 192.168.1.101:843 , and my server web is
the other ip .

Best regerds